Cleanup watchlist preference usage

Cleanup watchlist preference usage

In general, the web UI does a check of the watchlist preferences along
the lines of "watch if watchdefault, or if watchcreations and the title
doesn't exist". So there's no way to have it watch edits but not
creations. Make the API behavior match this.

For API action=protect&watchlist=preferences, we want to use
'watchdefault' always to match the behavior of the web UI.

For Special:Upload, the code is all there to do a "watch if
watchdefault, or if watchcreations and the file doesn't exist". But for
some reason that code wasn't being used in favor of just using
watchcreations all the time. Fix that, too. And have the API use that
instead of checking if the file page exists.

Bug: 56766
Change-Id: I57fc46d9a97b3ea2169173727db842d0d7ecf81d